I met this guy a few years ago, but the timing wasn’t right. He was great, and I think about him sometimes, wondering if I should get back in touch with him or let it go? What do you think?
– Looking for Love in Longmont
Dear Looking for Love in Longmont,
What would be your purpose for getting back in touch with him? I would clarify that first. That way you can be clear about your expectations for the situation. Then you can prepare yourself for either response.
Sounds like you’re interested in being more than just friends. Maybe you can start with a phone conversation and just get back in touch. See how it feels, find out what he’s been up to and go from there. Trust your heart. It will tell you if it’s right. Always be willing to risk when it comes to love if it’s what you really want. If it doesn’t work out, at least you’ll know you gave it your best shot, and you won’t have to wonder.
Hope it turns out the way you want it to.