Relational Rehab

Dear Molly,

What do you suggest I do about being in a relationship?  I’ve been wanting to be in one for some time, but it’s just not happening for me.  Do you believe in soul mates?


– Relational Rehab in Rhode Island

Dear Relational Rehab in Rhode Island,

I do believe in soul mates.  When you meet someone and you get a sense you have met them before or know them from somewhere that is a definite sign of a soul mate.

If you want to be in a relationship, first you must feel good about you – you want to attract someone who is in line with the authentic you – which means you must first have a sense of who that part of you is.

Make space for him/her to come into your life.  Start arranging things in your home as if he/she is already there.  I know it sounds silly, but this really works.

Let go of how you think he/she is going to come to you, and line up with what you love to do.  Fill your life up, open your heart, and he/she will find his/her way to you.  Let it happen naturally – don’t panic – let him/her in!!

People who know who they are and live in accordance with this knowing are incredibly attractive.  He/she is not far from you.  Step into your happiness, and it will happen in no time!




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