What do you suggest I do about being in a relationship? I’ve been wanting to be in one for some time, but it’s just not happening for me. Do you believe in soul mates?
– Relational Rehab in Rhode Island
Dear Relational Rehab in Rhode Island,
I do believe in soul mates. When you meet someone and you get a sense you have met them before or know them from somewhere that is a definite sign of a soul mate.
If you want to be in a relationship, first you must feel good about you – you want to attract someone who is in line with the authentic you – which means you must first have a sense of who that part of you is.
Make space for him/her to come into your life. Start arranging things in your home as if he/she is already there. I know it sounds silly, but this really works.
Let go of how you think he/she is going to come to you, and line up with what you love to do. Fill your life up, open your heart, and he/she will find his/her way to you. Let it happen naturally – don’t panic – let him/her in!!
People who know who they are and live in accordance with this knowing are incredibly attractive. He/she is not far from you. Step into your happiness, and it will happen in no time!